If someone has scars
DONT ASK ABOUT THEM UNLESS PREVIOUSLY ESTABLISHED AS OKAY
If you ask anyway and they sidestep the question
DON'T PRESS FOR AN ANSWER
Over all, just don't be an absolute asshole and press for very Possibly Traumatic answers from people you barely know
The fact that people feel entitled to know every detail about how you got a mark is Not Okay
Especially when they don't like the answer and then get upset??????
Gargron, a cis male who writes the software and is known to be arrogant and self-admittedly closed-minded to ideas he didn't make
Versus noelle, *basically* the only moderator of mastodon.social, an unemployed trans woman, the backbone of keeping mastodon.social (and greater mastodon by extension) safe
I'm sorry this just doesn't seem very fair to me
Dark social media thoughts
@dirt I'm willing to bet that microsoft would sooner end up buying it than facebook.
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