i really really really hate that the concept of "importance" gets applied to people

like this weird pressure we have to Be Important somehow?? like making a lot of money is something we all complain about making ppl important but it goes beyond that? you shouldn't feel pressure to make something incredible or do something hugely self sacrificial or be Super Duper talented at some skill like. importance as a concept breaks down so rapidly when applied to humans

i'm not even sure how to explain this incredible anger i have about this. you don't have to be important to anyonr. you don't have to be anyone's hero or soulmate or perfect parent or whatever the fuck. you can live your whole life working a simple job and never get married or have kids and be very ill and struggle and that doesn't make your life sad or meaningless? life doesn't even have a meaning we're just supposed to live?

whoever you are and whatever you do you'll just.... be sad and struggle sometimes and be happy and flourish sometimes and everyone has different happiness/sadness ratios and the Are Not affected by the things you produce. they just are that way

so like.... god just fuck "meaning" and "significance" and "importance" as concepts applied to human lives. you don't need to be anything. you don't need to prove yourself or accomplish anything. and that sounds sort of lazy and defeatist but i honestly believe when we stop pressuring people to Be Important; to create beauty, to be loved, to help others, people are suddenly 8000% more into doing those things

when we just let people exist and encourage them to do it in a way that makes them comfortable..... they are able to produce those incredible things we want to see. humans naturally create art, seek knowledge, help others, form bonds and families

right after i joined mastodon i saw a post (idr who it was from) that said smthn like "it's really painful how things like art and dancing are considered something you have to be good at instead of things that all humans do, as naturally as eating or breathing" and i think about that all the time. the things that we naturally do have been commodified and portrayed as somethint to struggle for, as things that only The Best are allowed to do. when without that pressure, we would all just do them??

and there would be more art and more knowledge and more compassionate acts and more of these things we're taught that only a few can do and iakdhdiwkhehfjjfj i'm sorry this has been a very long and pretentious rant

You Are Not Letting Anyone Down By Not Creating, By Not Taking Better Care Of Your Health, By Not Being Kinder, By Not Learning More. These Are Things That Have Been Taken Away From You. You Were Always Supposed To Be Able To Do Those Things, And Loved And Valued Even If You Couldn't alright sorry i'm done

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@myconidiosyncracy thanks for sharing this rant Tristan, it does you a lot of credit.

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