rey @rey@vulpine.club

#VulpineClub bulletin:

Alright, I made a sticker request form.

I'm going to be adding more stickers soooooon (just need to, you know, *make them*), but I figured I'd get this up there :)

https://reytucker.typeform.com/to/WMwBQ2

New year, new #introductions post...

Hi, I'm Rey, a polyamorous, postfurry, queer as fuck, non-binary trans catgirl and nascent fox. I share my path with @ezricatte and @tastymochafox but tbh I'm a slut who dates a whole bunch of people. I'm probably dating you, somewhere in time.

I am an engineer, the sort who makes embedded hardware do cool things. I was the founder and admin of vulpine.club, until my foxgirl transformation was complete at the end of 2018.

I am in Rochester, NY mostly, Boston regularly, Seattle occasionally, and perhaps NYC and Toronto once in awhile.

I am made of love. It's stronger than you. Says so on the label.

Hey #VulpineClub,

This is my last message as an admin of vulpine.club.

It began as a weekend project, something cool to play with, to fill up time between jobs.

Then others showed up. And we became friends. And we became a community.

We built a decidedly queer space, atop radical acceptance and boundaries and consent and respect and love.

What started as a novelty became a safe space, a judgement-free place for self-exploration, for myself and for so many others.

This was the first community where I was Rey, 100% of the time. This was the first community where I've felt *normal* for being into the things I'm into, for loving folks like I do, for being _me_.

But at some point, it began to feel like v.c was usurping my identity. Being "Rey, the Vulpine Club admin" became awkward and uncomfortable. This isn't who I *am*... I am so much more.

I've also struggled with the conflict between having responsibility for the safety of this community, and being in personal intimate relationships with a substantial part of it.

So, I figure it's time to turn in my badge and pun, and leave things in the paws of the best admins, mods, and friends I could leave y'all with: Sariya and Clara.

I love you all. You are such beautiful and amazing critters. Thank you for being here with me <3

P.S. I'll still be around, you betcha

An official statement of response to the gentleman's concerns is attached.

@mwlucas a policy I should make explicit: if I boost something and it brings shitheads to your yard, please let me know so that I can block them too

tired: capitalist REITs
wired: fennec REETs

Julien Baker / Appointments

https://vulpine.club/@nowplaying/101775233527712798

I'm staying in tonight
I won't stop you from leaving
I know that I'm not what you wanted, am I?
Wanted someone who I used to be like
Now you think I'm not trying
I don't argue, it's not worth the effort to lie
You don't want to bring it up
And I already know how it looks
You don't have to remind me so much
How I disappoint you
Suggest that I talk to somebody again
That knows how to help me get better
And 'til then I should just try not to miss any more
Appointments

I think if I ruin this
That I know I can live with it
Nothing turns out like I pictured it
Maybe the emptiness is just a lesson in canvases
I think if I fail again
That I know you're still listening
Maybe it's all gonna turn out all right
And I know that it's not, but I have to believe that it is

reference: https://vulpine.club/@EeveeDefender/101773506363711692

cc: @EeveeDefender ^^

if you copy and paste this image into vulpine.club right now, it will immediately do absolutely nothing, and probably nobody will notice

definitely low on spoons