not-NOT-a-g?rl whomst Hardware @mxsparks@vulpine.club

[Janet voice] I’m not a sir 🙂
[Bad Janet voice, sotto voce] ... ya ding dong 😛

the Lumberjack Sketch but it just ends with

“she’s a lumberjack and she’s okay / she sleeps all night and she works all day”

looks like we’re spending most of today in bed, folks

I have ADHD, or as it’s known in the Unix world, “focus follows mouse”

manufacturers: it's important for a weighted blanket not to be *too* heavy, 10% of your body mass is a good limit

me, the second coming of Giles Corey: you fools, you cowards, you utterly craven buffoons

> GET DRESSED
Taken.
You now have:
- dress (being worn)
> _

get in the shower, clarity, we _are_ going to work this morning

go to bed clarity

anyhow, in much the same way that I make sure to post selfies before I get the chance to look too long at them, it’s time for me to go to bed before I have time to start overthinking every interaction from the evening

g’night, cuties (yes, you)

okay so that was a weirdly gender-affirming experience? not like “had people constantly validating me,” more like “confirmed that I made the right decision by switching”

the gender ratio at my company being what it is, and my fellow engineers’ social skills being what they are, I made friends with like half a dozen unattended spousen just by sitting down and *talking* to them while the boys were off talking about work with the same people they already see 50 hours a week

and that’s something I never, ever figured out how to do comfortably among men as a man

don’t get me wrong, old habits and anxieties still die hard, but in general since coming out I’ve almost had to start questioning whether I’m even an introvert :3

Forgot the photo!

I said earlier that I was 5’13” in these, but looking closer at them it might actually be 5’14” 😁

(Don’t worry, I’ve got flats in my purse just in case)

I walk into the office holiday party
tells: obvious
shoulders: broad
ass: none to shake
I’m still fuckin’ hot 😏