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If you're not sure whether you're nonbinary, I made www.aminonbinary.com to help you figure it out. (Imaginative name, I know...)

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(I’ll probably get around to notifying the Department of Veterans Affairs sometime in the next year, but they are not very good at paperwork and I suspect it’s going to be a bit of a chore just to remind them that I ever existed in the first place)

so, y’all already know that I’m nonbinary, and you probably could have guessed that I categorically reject the state’s authority to determine my gender

that said: in the last 12 months the U.S. Departments of State, Defense, and Homeland Security, the U.S. Social Security Administration, the Pennsylvania Department of Health, the Texas Department of Public Safety, the Regents of the University of Texas, and the 345th District Court of Travis County have each adjudged me to be an Adult Human Female

and terves and Christianists can die mad about it

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@HTHR m.youtube.com/watch?v=NwUMWIMf

early summer 2016, driving around DrSparks’s hometown with her and finishing wedding prep

this song starts playing and I finally *understand,* two years after the end of my last deployment, that they can never send me out to sea and away from her again

and I lean my head against the passenger side window and blubber

LB: This took more courage than I have ever had in my entire life. Go read this article. Understand that someone whose livelihood is dependent on public perception and social acceptance purposefully risked both those things for pretty selfless reasons.

Bravery is trying to give those unluckier than you a chance to get through.

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can’t believe in the year of Our Lady Tabby Manx two thousand and nineteen we’re arguing about whose self-definition is and isn’t valid

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Tonight at commencement I finally learned the words to “The Eyes of Texas” and they are, as the young folks say these days, Extremely Cursed

especially when you’re a trans lesbian and the Lege is in session

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I was about to make a post about how enbies are good, without even knowing about #TellAnEnbyTheyreCuteDay, but now that I've seen it...

Cute. Cute. Cute. All of you are cute. None of you are free of cute.

The people were astonished at his doctrine.

This rings so very true to me, and it's strikingly useful in my ongoing attempts to explain how boundaries aren't rules. It's actually about emotional independence, healthy separation so we can know and love both ourselved and others.

@socialskeleton and you can even switch back! or more than once! or after you’ve been using your current pronouns for a long time! or to several sets of pronouns concurrently!

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