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update: 😶‍🌫️

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autism assessment 

they said they didn't notice any repetitive motions beyond my use of a fidget toy (which is already 🤨) but maybe they didn't see that my legs were both bouncing at like 20Hz

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autism assessment 

the more I think back on it, the more gross shit I see in that conversation. besides a lot of calling me "high functioning" and saying how I have so many strengths, they also said "you might have been autistic at some point but aren't anymore". isn't the literal point of the research I was agreeing to participate in that autism involves a distinct brain structure that they want to study? how can I have become allistic if it's innate?

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I need to not be Aware but with my tolerance where it is, the amount necessary to accomplish that for the whole rest of the day is enough to cause other problems. plus I would have to give up yesterday's hard-won progress

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sui 

trying to think of things to live for. the only thing I'm finding is getting to see my sister's kid grow up, but thanks to internalized bigotry I'm probably never gonna feel comfortable being around kids. there was a brief period where it felt like I might get over it, might be able to accept that I'm not subconsciously a predator somehow, but then they started stealing trans kids away from supportive parents

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sui 

they were so certain. not "we think probably not but our testing was limited", but "you're not autistic period". so I guess I'm just Broken?

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sui 

even if I could get a diagnosis elsewhere, I don't have it in me to actually make the appointment. I could barely get it done when I thought it was certain. and with a diagnosis, it's not like I'll get disability or anything from it. it's not like it would stop the world from hating me. literally why am I putting so much effort into not offing myself when I've always known that's how I'd go out

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sh/sui 

really not feeling safe rn but there's nothing I can do about it without risking making things worse

autism assessment 

like they literally said "being able to mask isn't something autistic people are usually able to do" which is complete bullshit?

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autism assessment 

I don't really understand how one hour with me is enough to say that when it's not even enough for me to let my guard down

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autism assessment 

welp, apparently I'm not autistic. that's what the results of the ADOS said, apparently. it sounds like I basically mask too hard and have done too much therapy to be autistic?

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don't mind me, just counting down the minutes until I can go to bed

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I know the second day is always the hardest for me, but everything is horrible and I hate myself and everyone around me

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dysphoria 

I just want some tits. is that really so much to ask?

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just finished doing a whole intake form before reading the part of the email that said this surgeon's next opening isn't until 2023 🙃

finding that programming gives me the same painful sapping of energy and joy as healthcare paperwork, even when I want to do it

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is there a good api for getting a user's congressional district from the address they provide? I have a project I've been wanting to do

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