@viciousviscosity This can get a bit muddled if someone follows this advice, trying to show affection in ways that suit the preferences of their friends/partners. Then, their displayed affection no longer represents their own desires, but that of others (arguably a good thing).
But I do agree in general! Almost the inverse of of the "Golden Rule" - "Do unto others as you'd like done to yourself."
@digitalfox
Agreed, certainly not a "catch-all" bit of advice, those are far shorter and infinitely more global - but something I've found useful in my general day-to-day actions. 😃