Saying "any pronouns are fine!" doesn't make you a good ally
Okay so I want to preface this by saying these are general trends, and there's a whole lot of exceptions.
A thing I notice really commonly though is that when spaces where people are asked to give their pronouns, quite often people I perceive as cis -- and it's usually people I perceive as guys -- will make a big point of saying "any pronouns for me are fine!"
This doesn't actually help. I know the thought process is to show that you're cool and hip to a world that doesn't have as much in the way of gender expectations, but. Really. I promise. Having preferred pronouns is fine. Saying "anything works!" smacks of performative allyship and, in practice, means we have to guess for what pronoun you're actually listening for -- which defeats the entire point of people giving pronouns.
If your assumed gender identity has always fit comfortably, it's easy to feel like gender isn't a big deal. It's easy to think "yeah whatever is fine, I'm cool with things." This is especially true if you know that assigned masculinity is a prison. I can say in confidence, though, that if you've lived a life where people continually made the wrong assumption, pronouns can become a very big deal.
So, really, I promise, it's fine to say "I use he/him pronouns".
shitpost, lewd i think?
jeez i was trying to figure out why my brain keeps overlapping CxT acronyms and it's because it's finally at something i've done in life
cock (and) fire therapy
I've been fucked by someone employed as a therapist (not mine!!) while being set on fire by them
THE CIRCLE IS COMPLETE
wife: i like how many powerful steppy women there are. what are they called?
cute feelings moment, furry adjacent
So I have definite robot feels (I normally tell people Rocket Robot on Wheels made me a furry) but there's been some more like, okay, I get this a bit more stuff lately around moths.
Someone's taking to calling me bot'h. like. bot-moth. Contracted. This is the cutest thing ever and keeps making me squeal with how cute it is. For other reasons, too, but dang.
trans queer polyam fox-adjacent robot, sometimes nsfw, rarely binary, kinda ace-ish, mostly confusing, boosting is generally
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