General pattern: A lot of very rare, amazing and powerful things in my life have come from listening very carefully to people's reasons for why I shouldn't talk to someone or do something, and then going ahead and talking to them or doing that thing anyway.
I'll be the judge of that :) But I do appreciate the heads up!
@KitRedgrave TBH this is one of the reasons I've kinda sharply veered towards "Don't steer people away unless there's active danger" recently.
Knowing someone's had troubled history with your friends is a good thing to be *informed* with, but it's usually not a good call to mass-shun.
The Vulpine Club is a friendly and welcoming community of foxes and their associates, friends, and fans! =^^=