Ranking ways that people avoid saying they by oder of best to worst:

• he or she // a classic, timeless
• he/she // same as above except it sounds like that slur
• s/he // efficient, just as many characters as they tho
• she or he // if you're gonna try to be feminist about it just say they
• he (or she) // bro what are you even doing
• she // again I get it you're trying to be cool and feminist, just use they
• he // only barely valid if you're a textbook from before 1970 and even then fuck you

@dragon so many board game manuals use "neutral" he that one time i just let out an exhausted sigh and didnt say anything and my friend knew exactly what that meant